@Sugabelly's Touching Story - "Audu Abubakar's Sons Used to Take Turns on Me, I Am Happy He Died"

@Sugabelly and Audu Mustapha

Okay, so @Sugabelly has been tweeting and celebrating the death of Kogi's guber candidate, Audu Abubakar, since yesterday because of her ugly encounter with his sons. But  from all I have read up, her encounter with the first son can't be aptly called RAPE but sexual exploitation in its worst form.

Sexual abuse doesn't even cut it as that assumes the guy had used personal, social and physical power to coerce sexual intimacy which is not the case here. I will tell the story here in my own words because the
language used by @Sugabelly to narrate the story in the viral screenshot is rated 18 and I have underage readers so here goes:

Lotanna Igwe-Udenze's (@Sugabelly) at 17 met, fell in love with and dated the then 25-year-old Audu's Abubakar's son, Mustapha Ilemona Audu, when she got her 1st job at Alteq, a tech Company in Abuja.

She was to find out that her lover, Mustapha Audu,  was a sexual pervert and a psycho who loves group sex, manipulation of the female body, and ultimately invited other co-psychos  - Bashir Audu, Kabir Audu, his two brothers; Jibrin Audu his cousin; Ema Oloyo, Abdulmalik Ogohi, son of the former Chief of Army Staff, Tunji Abdul, The Faceless Monster, and his many other friends - to the tea-party to feast on Sugabelly's body and that was when, to me, the real rape happened.

Her psycho boyfriend had hit her on that fateful day when she went to his family house, pulled her hair hard and forced her to take off her clothes under the watchful eyes of his numerous friends. He then held her hands from behind while the army of psychos touched her private parts and later held her down for them to take turns on from behind.

And then the physical and mental abuse continued - more pulling of hair, dirty talks, gang-raping by different friends everytime. "He used to bring new friends every couple of  time but Tunji and Abdul were always there. Sometimes his brothers joined in, sometimes other people".

Now, talk about victim-blaming. Did she consent to it all? I think so. Nobody should grin and bear hideous acts like this in the name of love. She could have walked after the first forced gang-rape but she continued dating someone who did such a horrendous thing to her because "I was in love with him and inside I kept hoping he didn't mean it, and if I just was obedient enough he would go back to being the sweet guy I met". Nothing was done to her  in her house or office but ALWAYS at the guy's place or some hotel. She had a choice of not going with him to the sexual rendezvous but never took it and all she did was hope the guy changes from being a psycho to the fake sweet guy he pretended to be and whom she fell in love with.

Below are some of the nasty thing she recalled her gang-rapists used to say about her and to her:

Dude, don't be so rough, I'm going in there next - Abdul

Stop struggling, just let me get in, and get out - Ema

Guess which one of us is inside you. Guess, or I'll break your legs. - Mustapha

They told me you're great in bed - Bashir

Just let me hit it raw, this guy! Today is my birthday! You gave her to me for my birthday! - Tunji

The dogs can smell the sex on you. If I tell them, they will kill you. - The Faceless Monster.

According to her, she and other girls got this treatment from the Audu-gang but she couldn't report because Audu was then "the governor of Kogi State and Abdul's dad was the Chief of Army Staff". She also added, "Next time I'll report to the police attaché with the AK47 that was standing guard while we were being stripped and thrown naked into the pool".

Apparently, Audu Abubakar supported and defended his sons when he learnt they raped Lotanna and that's why she celebrates the death of a man whose sons ruined a part of her life.

There is enough blame to go round. Nobody lies about things like this and I think the Audu boys and friends need to be caged for being such sickening psychos if ever there were any. There are many like them, well dressed, polished manners outside but they do such horribly insane things in private that will make you cringe and make their ancestors turn in their graves. They run around loose doing such terrible and psyche-affecting things to defenceless girls and I honestly applaud Lotanna's courage for coming forward with this because untreated sexual abuse such as this can be a self-destructive time bomb that leads to repressed anger, hostility and diminished sense of identity. It can explode if not defused and I pray she heals totally now.